There was an editorial in a newspaper whose title interesting is: "why was there a crime?" That is why in this world, this earth, there is still a crime. This sentence seems good, but it would be better if replaced with "if I had stopped doing evil?".
Why do we only require another person and does not demand of ourselves first. "Have I changed for the better?". If we just sue, demos, later in our minds only covered by anger and hatred. It never have any good improvement for yourself.
I want to give you an example. A father, a husband would want his family at ease, prosperity and mutual respect. However, if the husband himself, his own father can not control themselves first, irritability, irritable, unable to think up, then the husband, the father will be a source of tension within their own households. It makes no sense if he expects his household harmonious, happy, no tension. He must fix themselves first.
If we keep to ourselves, is tantamount to keeping other people, because we do not create problems for others. If we want to keep other people, so they are not difficult, does not suffer, the way is take care of ourselves first. If we want to keep the others but do not want to control yourself, it might impossible. we will become a source of tension for others.
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